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Pregnancy help closer to home

When Amanda learned she was expecting her second child, she started looking for help.

The mother of a 19-month old already, Amanda was worried her parenting skills were not that good. “My husband and I don’t have any family members,” she says. “I was very scared and I was worried that I wasn’t doing it right. My first child had colic…not having someone to show me the proper way to raise a child made it hard.”

So when her husband learned about the new Petrolia branch of the Pregnancy Options and Support Center, Amanda went to check it out.

Tina Hunter, the coordinator in Petrolia, says many people believe the Pregnancy Options and Support Center is for teens who find themselves making tough choices but she says they provide training and help to every age and circumstance. “We are trying to be diligent in spreading the word this is not a teen centre, it is for anyone who can say ‘wow, this is a bump in the road.’”

Hunter says the center can help women from the very beginning of their pregnancy. “If the test comes back that she is pregnant, we start looking at what the options are,” says Hunter.

“If she says I want adoption, here’s some agencies, here is a lawyer,” says Hunter. “We don’t make the calls for them, we just help give them the resources.”

Hunter says they also provide extensive training to women who will keep their children, everything from disciplining children to baby proofing homes. Women can earn “baby bucks” while taking the courses and then chose from items such as clothing and diapers after “earning their pay.”

And while the center is “life affirming” Hunter says they will provide women with information on abortion services if they ask. …if they want an abortion, we provide the information but we don’t facilitate it. No one at our center is allowed to pass off information that is threatening, just theses are the facts.”

Hunter says the Pregnancy Options Center is not new to Sarnia-Lambton. The main center has been operating in Sarnia since 1988.

“We were finding we were getting calls from girls in the county wanting services but when they got to making the appointment, they said ‘I can’t get to you,’” says Hunter.

“With a large amount of children feeding into LCCVI and the hospital near by, we felt that was a good fit to be in Petrolia.”

The center is open three days a week, Tuesday and Wednesday from 11am to 4pm and Friday from 10 am to 3 pm.

 

Plympton-Wyoming businesses may open on holidays

Plympton-Wyoming Council is looking at opening the community for business during holidays.

A public meeting will be held tonight to talk about allowing businesses to voluntarily open on Family Day, Victoria Day, Canada Day, Labour Day and Thanksgiving Day.

Mayor Lonny Napper says a local winery asked for the exemption for its tourists. “Alton Farm Estate Winery asked for the exemption; they have a retail store there and a bed and breakfast and a lot of their sales are based around holidays and people vacationing,” says Napper.

So far, Napper says there has been very few people voice concerns to him. “I haven’t heard any negatives yet,” he says. “A lot of retailers say it is like Sunday shopping; in rural Ontario I don’t think they feel they are forced into it like the bigger cities.”

Napper says allowing the change won’t affect a lot of businesses in the area if it goes into effect since tourism based businesses are already exempt.

“I’m sure there are some people from days gone by that say we should be closing down but with Sunday shopping, it seems the natural thing to do.”

 

 

New book looks at the life of an average Hard Oiler

Gary May couldn’t pass up an opportunity to tell the history of Petrolia from a more personal perspective.

The former London Free Press reporter has written extensively on the history of the oil industry including Hard Oiler and Groundbreaker. Now, he is examining life in Petrolia after the oil boom in the family history “A Hard Oiler LoveStory.”

The book was commissioned by Shelia Rose, one of the daughters of the subjects Amy and Amos Barnes.

“I have written several books and newspaper and magazine articles about the oil boom, its something that interests me and something I plan to write more about,” says May, who will be in Petrolia Sunday to launch the book at the library. “This was an opportunity to tell a little of Petrolia’s history from different prospective. Most of my books are directly connected to the history of the oil producers. This is a family on periphery of the oil industry.

“They’re just an ordinary run of the mill citizens of Petrolia when the bloom was off the boom. It allows me to delve into a little of what Petrolia was like after the oil industry died down.”

The book recounts the story of Amos and Amy Barnes from about 1917 to the 1950s. Many of the stories come from still living siblings and children and photos from the family collection. May also knew the family. He met Rose when he was a reporter and had met Amy Barnes in person.

But there was much to learn. May says while the family’s life was coloured by Petrolia’s oil industry, it was their sense of self-reliance that struck a chord with him as he researched and wrote the book.

“I was most affected by how people dealt directly with problems …they were very self sufficient,” says May. “We have lost so much of that, everything is at our finger tips, if we have a problem with the plumbing in our house or the roof is leaking we call someone they come and deal with it…

“In those days, people were constantly coming across problems, Amos had his own oil fields worked for others…when he encountered a problem he was required to fix it as was Amy when there was a problem in the home.”

That theme runs through the family history. And May says that while it is a family history, people will definitely learn something about the community they live in.

“I try to write these books as though they were novels, they are based on hard facts written in a fashion as thought you were reading a novel,” he says. “I want to contribute to the accumulation of information about this particular community. I am very much preserving the community’s history with this.

May and relatives of Amos and Amy Barnes will be at the Petrolia Library Sunday between 1 pm and 3 pm with copies of A Hard Oiler Love Story on sale for $20.

 

 

Hilarious history comes alive

The Lambton Young Theatre Players made Petrolia Discovery come alive with stories from the past recently.

The joint fundraiser featured plays throughout the Discovery, including the funeral of Sparky McCracken who turned out not to be dead at all, just drunk.

Rain dampened attendance to the weekend event but Artistic Director Nancy Keys says the actors loved performing in the outdoors.

LYTP is now holding auditions for its Christmas performance. For more information call 519-882-3521.

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